Self Harm

Understanding Self-Harm: You’re Not Alone

Self-harm is something many people struggle with, though it’s not always talked about openly. At Islington Therapy House, we believe it’s important to break the silence around it and offer a safe, non-judgemental space where you can get the support you need.

If you or someone you care about is self-harming, know this: you are not alone, and help is available.

 

What Is Self-Harm?

Self-harm (sometimes called self-injury) is when someone hurts themselves on purpose, often as a way to cope with overwhelming emotions, stress, or emotional pain. This might involve cutting, scratching, burning, or hitting oneself — though there are many different forms.

For some people, self-harm is a way to:

  • Release intense emotions
  • Feel a sense of control
  • Distract from emotional pain
  • Punish themselves
  • Feel something when everything else feels numb

It’s not about attention-seeking. It’s a coping strategy — often used when someone doesn’t know another way to express or manage what they’re going through.

Why Do People Self-Harm?

Self-harm usually isn’t the problem itself — it’s a sign that something deeper is going on. People of all ages and backgrounds may turn to self-harm, and the reasons can vary, such as:

  • Anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem
  • Bullying or social pressure
  • Trauma or abuse
  • Loneliness or isolation
  • Struggles with identity or relationships
  • Feeling disconnected or numb

Sometimes, people who self-harm feel ashamed or frightened to talk about it. But reaching out is a sign of strength — not weakness.

How Can Therapy Help?

Talking to a therapist can be a turning point. Therapy isn’t about being judged or told what to do. It’s about working together with someone who wants to understand and support you.

At Islington Therapy House, our therapists can help you:

  • Explore the emotions behind self-harm
  • Learn healthier ways to cope and express yourself
  • Build self-confidence and self-worth
  • Understand and reduce self-harming behaviours over time
  • Create a safe space where you can be yourself

We work with people at their own pace, whether they’re just beginning to talk about self-harm or have been dealing with it for a long time.

Finding the Right Therapist

We know that choosing the right therapist is important. Everyone’s journey is different, and we’re here to help you find someone who understands your needs.

  • Meet our therapists here  
  • If you’re unsure where to start or want help finding the right match, our team can support you with a referral.
  • Get help finding a therapist 

You Deserve Support

If you’re struggling with self-harm, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re carrying something heavy — and you deserve support with that.

Whether you’re ready to talk now, or just thinking about it, we’re here for you.

You don’t have to go through it alone. At Islington Therapy House, we’re here to listen, to support, and to help you move towards a healthier way of coping.

How ıt works

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